Have you ever heard of a DTR?

DTR means define the relationship.

I did that twice last night. And though I was dreading both, they turned out well!! I told both guys that all I wanted was friendship, that really all I needed was some space. Both agreed. I know that at least one of them isn't terribly thrilled with the idea, but both guys took it really well.

It was wonderful! I love having friends. Friends are great. (Boyfriends are scary. No thanks. I'm still too young. Didn't Dad tell me that I had to wait until I was 25 to have a boyfriend?? That sounds good to me.)

Anyway, I'm so glad to have things resolved. It feels so good!!!!